In this post I’m going to guide you through how to get started with kink/fantasy for yourself if you haven’t given much time or thought to it, using resources, how porn can be an ally in kinky exploration and how you can deep-dive into your fantasies to uncover hidden turn-ons.

So now that we’ve broken down the difference between low desire and responsive desire in Part 1 of this blog, let’s explore how we can use this understanding to support more desire in our relationships going forward.