In this post I’m going to guide you through how to get started with kink/fantasy for yourself if you haven’t given much time or thought to it, using resources, how porn can be an ally in kinky exploration and how you can deep-dive into your fantasies to uncover hidden turn-ons.

If you’ve ever struggled with low desire, you’re not alone. It’s a common experience, and the world is filled with advice on how to “fix” it. But what if we’re asking the wrong question? Instead of focusing on how to increase desire, consider this: how can you make the experience itself more pleasurable? This year, let’s shift our mindset and make pleasure the focal point of our intimate lives.